Joan's Kosher Kitchen
Simchas and Family Holiday Food
Recipes
American Jews want to know how to be Jews in America. There is no greater joy implicit in the life of a Jew than Aff Simchas: At celebrations of Jewish milestones and celebration of Jewish holidays. Everything about Simchas and Holiodays is positive; an opportunity to observe, celebrate and enhance Jewish family life. Everything, that is except the actual information on why and how to do so. I focus on the basic structure of why and how average American Jews can enter the sphere of life cycle celebrations to observe and enjoy Jewish events.
In contrast to the synagogue centered annual Jewish Holidays and Festivals, the structure of Simchas are less well known. Spontaneous, personal, singular happenings, Simchas are generated by the natural rhythm of Jewish family life at the moment of specific lifetime events, outside a regular time frame. Beyond orthodox Jewry, most American Jews are vague about the appropriate Hebrew law and lack the confidence on how to renew rituals for the next generation. A Jew should be able to respond with fitting religious ceremonials that culminate at the festive table. No easy source combines Jewish law, ritual, personal options and kosher food customs.
Young Jewish adults first seriously encounter their Judaism when they become engaged, discuss establishing a Jewish Home, Baby Naming, Bar/Bat Mitzvah and special days. I am proudest of my repertoire of menus, kosher recipes - both traditional and contemporary, appropriately aligned to each Simcha and Jewish Holidays.
AT THE TABLE - CELEBRATE!
Ethnicity intersects with life-cycle events at every phase. Each life cycle transition is an opportunity to renew and reinforce the continuity of a Jewish family. Life-cycle celebrations strengthen individual, family and cultural identities. Jewish events culminate at the table with the whole family as witnesses, participants and celebrants at a Seudat Mitzvah, a Simcha’s festive meal. Even the meal of condolence after a funeral celebrates a life.
Foods at a celebration provide lasting, poignant memories. The majority of American Jews have roots in Eastern Europe. Foods native to those countries and within the Jewish Dietary laws are often identified as ‘Jewish foods’ although few American Jews cook like their grandparents – or parents. Many original daily foods and delicacies have disappeared. Yet at Simchas people seek the nostalgic warmth nurtured by their ancestral foods. Aff Simchas provides an opportunity to recreate traditional delicacies that bring an intimacy with a family’s Jewish kitchen culture.
ABOUT THE RECIPES
American Jews alternately preserved, abandoned or adapted various phases of Kashrut, the Jewish Dietary Laws. A brief explanation of these laws is given with consideration to various existing levels of observance. Recipes take advantage of the intersection of modern science and the food industry that make ‘keeping kosher’ easier for today’s kosher cook. If Jewish food means kosher, all recipes for Aff Simchas are kosher, if kosher meat, fish and other items are purchased.
The recipes for Simchas and Holidays are unique as many are classic or contemporary recipes successfully adapted to kashrut. Numerous ‘old country’ recipes are available. Friends and family worldwide have their own recipes for specific Simchas. Recipes of Biblical origins were tested and adapted. Where possible the reason that some foods are served at certain Simchas is noted.
Busy working couples who rarely cook, let alone for a crowd, may be overwhelmed by unfamiliar foods. They crave health conscious recipes. I offer with many menu options. Recipes fulfill all levels of culinary ability, serve 8 to 12 many can be doubled and advance preparation is outlined.
Above all, Jewish people love life! To love life, Jews mark personal milestones within the given ancient laws. Jewish people recite blessings, tell tales of previous generations, bask in the glow of a new grandchild’s Hebrew name, bless the Bar and Bat Mitzvah and shower the bride with barley. Then Jews gather at the table to celebrate at a festive meal amidst the comfort and security of family and community.
